It gave words they helping you and it gave words they hurt you !

Hello People,

Im writing here now about something what i see already everyday better said i hear it everyday and also see it on the Tv or radio. Its kinda shocking what happend with the live of teenagers and about what they are saying. Im now 24 so im over the Teenager time but when i was in the Teenager age (10 – 16 ) i dindt said words like this.

Im Talking about words like ( Cunts, Bitch, Slut, Ugly Bitch and more of this ) i cant really belive what i already heard from these young people seriously they are already growing up, i think they dont really knew about what happend with these people who they call these words. They just start saying these just to be cool and all this but honestly i know how it feels to get called these words and i thin ksome of you readers too and how much these words can hurt you.

–  I Wish i could give you my pain, just for one moment, Not to hurt you but rather soyou can finally understand how much you hurt me –

It actually doesnt care how old you are, just the fact you saying words like that, its not right ! YOu dont know what can happend when someone get calles these some of them start falling in a eating disease or start cutting or see any reason to live again and the lat thing the do is the suicide.

Some people should think about this what they saying cause they can kill people just with words, its a slowly way to get killed cause when one started to say things ike that the other start it too just to be with you cool.

– You are not cool with saying these words –

To get called these words leaves scars, sometimes not some you can see but they are they and they never leave this person again, trust me i know about what im writing here, for me its always a little looking back when i start thinking about a few things and i remember myself at everysingle word ive get called and from who, this never gonna leave a person.

– So better start thinking first before you start saying anything –

But theres also Words that can help you in bad times or healing your emotional scars, these words should better said more oftern like ( beautiful, you are worth it to get loved, pretty, smile more, love you , care about you, miss you ). its gave so many words who you already can help people with. But some choose more the way to hurt people.

When we all would pull at one rope and stop saying words like this, for some people the live would be a lot easier. you can try this out say everyday one person thats this one is beautiful and ou must mean this, trust me just these words can help more as money always can cause

– money cant buy you happyness –

You will see and when this person being much postiv as normals you also start smiling the whole day cause you brought a person to smile and this is something wonderfull in a life. We all need so much more postivity on the live of 2012/2013.

It gave enough hate in the world, we dont need it around of us and our love ones and friends, no one need hate or deserve to get some hate, hate can ruins live of so many people.

xx Sarah

 

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Good Times save good memories for a life right ??? Well maybe not

Hey Readers,

as you see from the Titel this is something about some memories and im not sure if every single one that i have is really a good one, yes at this time i had all this moment i was really happe laugh a alot and all that.

But when i look now back to all this times, im not feeling myself really happy and could laugh, its more like i could cry all the time, and wish i could go back to this times, back to the laugh and fun times ?

In this year was pretty often on concerts and was out with my friends and stuff like that, when i lokk today back to some of these dates, i feel like lost and sad. Cause all these moments are far back in the past, days i will ever forget but someday i wish i could forget these days cause then i would stop to cry and be sad all day. I tried to let some memories go to forget some of them to make the now a little bit easier but it doesnt work .

– Sure at one site dont wanna forget all this, but is it good to feel each day this missing feeling, to miss people like hell and wish you could pack directly your bags and fligh/drive to them ?

Did you ever had or still have the same problem like i ? and did you found a way to make this all better as now ? Well i tried to make it better to stop to listen to their music and now its 4 weeks ago, 4 weeks without listen to the songs of them, or my lovley friends and try as much as i can to stay in contact with them but it makes it all not better.

Specially when i see that one of them need some love right now and i cant be there and this kills me.

Why i doesnt gave a on/off button for the memories that you can use when you need a break from everything ? Sure

distract works out for a while but at the end, when you back in you bed alone and start thinking about the day, the memories are back.

But i have at the same time these horrible feeling in me, what happen in the future ? Did we have then also some good moment/memories or would it be diffrent, what happen when we see us back after such a long time, i know that i love my Girls for every it will be everytime the same when i see them <3. But what is with the other .. .. ..

Im really scared about that … … …

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